Jul
13
2026
Walk & talk
Sunday morning walk - Hampstead Heath
An easy 5km loop with a coffee at the end. No agenda, no introductions in a circle - just walking with people who turned up for the same reason.
RSVP →Events
Real reasons to be in the same room.
Walks, pub nights, five-a-side, workplace sessions. Small, low-stakes, easy to turn up to - and easy to bring a mate.
What's coming up
Upcoming events.
No name badges. No icebreakers. Turn up on your own or bring the group chat - both are the point.
Jul
20
2026
Five-a-side
RealMates kickabout - Powerleague Shoreditch
Pickup five-a-side with mates and people who didn't come with anyone. Stay for a pint after at The Owl.
RSVP →Aug
07
2026
Pub night
First Friday - Manchester
First Friday of the month. Walk in, say you're here for RealMates, sit down. That's the whole thing.
RSVP →Aug
14
2026
Workplace
Lunch & launch - for HR and people leads
How to bring the six questions into your workplace without it feeling like a wellness webinar. Q&A with the team.
RSVP →Sep
04
2026
Talk
Why men go quiet - in conversation
A panel with mates, captains and a clinical psychologist on why men drift, and what actually pulls them back.
RSVP →Sep
21
2026
Captain's clinic
Captains & coaches workshop
For team captains and coaches who want to make checking in normal in the changing room - not a one-off speech.
RSVP →Host one where you are.
If there's nothing near you, run one yourself. We'll send you a one-page guide, a poster pack and a short brief - and list your event here.
